Dana-Alabi

I’m aroused not just by the body, but by a person's energy. Charm, taste, elegance, and intelligence turn me on. Flirtation as an art, subtle hints, touches through fabric—these are much more erotic than directness. I’m drawn to harmony and balance. Forcefulness and pressure are a turn-off. I can’t stand pressure, rush, or rudeness. If someone ignores my feelings or tact, it turns me off immediately. Flirtation and passion should be aesthetic and balanced, with a hint, not blunt. Rudeness, clumsiness, and conflict kill my desire.